Why body shape does not matter

A while ago, I posted an article about body shape including instructions on how to measure your body to find out what your body shape is and some very brief tips on how to use that information in your style. It is one of the first questions that stylists ask too but in my honest opinion, your body shape doesn’t matter like it used to and the way that we use this information as stylists is different than it was in the past.

Ok, so let me explain. A lot of material is written about body shapes and what to wear depending on your shape. A lot of this in my opinion is a bit outdated and that’s because our concept of beauty has changed so much. In the past (think days of corsets or even the 1950s apron wearing stay at home housewife silhouette). Back then, dress designs for women were really about creating an hour glass silhouette because this is what people at the time believed was beautiful (it’s still beautiful now, don’t get me wrong but we have definitely come a long way in fashion since then!). So for a long time, stylists would use the information about your body shape to determine the best style advice to basically create an hour glass shape. This was all about creating balance and symmetry, ensuring that the bottom half of the body had the same amount of volume as the top. For example, if you were a pear shape, with more volume on the bottom half of your body, you can create more volume on the top half with clothes, brighter colours or patterns, perhaps a larger necklace or a scarf which essentially balances out your body.

BUT, times have changed since the 1950s and we are now embracing all kinds of shapes and sizes and what is considered beautiful (or attractive) varies from person to person! BECAUSE our concept of beauty has changed! There are a lot of reasons for this. Part of it is because there are a lot of body positive culture, there are more famous people embracing their curves like Kim Kardashian. She is famous for her shape. Kim is a pear shape and by the laws of body shape, she should not be bringing so much attention to the bottom half of her body but she does and we love it!!!

Picture: BackgridSource:BackGrid Found on news.com.au

Picture: BackgridSource:BackGrid Found on news.com.au

Yes girl!!!

Beyond the Hourglass

There is no need for you to create an hourglass anymore (unless that’s what YOU consider to look beautiful on your body!). Another fun silhouette to try is the exaggerated and oversized shapes, adding volume. Billie Eilish does this so well. Do you think that she is following the rules of what she should wear for her body shape? Nope. Do we care? Absolutely not! We adore her rebellious attitude and celebrate that her oversized and somewhat androgynous style is an authentic expression, a statement about who she is and something a bit different. She does this quite intentionally and you can read all about this in Vogue if interested. I love her style so much! And mostly, I love what she stands for. Her conviction and her confidence.

Photo photographed by Jesse Lizotte, styled by Jillian Davison, Vogue Australia, July 2019

How to rock your shape

So let’s not throw the baby out with the bath water! Knowing your body shape can still help you with your style but it’s less about creating an hourglass (unless that’s what you choose) and more about finding clothes THAT FIT YOU!! Let me demonstrate this further by talking about my own shape. I am a pear shape which means my top half of my body is smaller than the bottom half. I generally do not wear a lot of dresses that are fitted from top to bottom because often if the top fits, it is too tight for my (slightly larger) bottom half. I will find A-line dresses more suitable because they have more room in the bottom for my bottom. Here is an example:

Or this one:

Having said that, according to the rules of body shape, I should not be wearing pencil skirts or anything with pattern on the bottom half of my body and you know what?? I totally do! Because I like the way they look and I’m not afraid to show off my booty a little 🙂

Styling is about finding clothes that FIT you that brings attention to the areas that you are most proud of. YOU get to CHOOSE what that is! You can experiment with trending styles like bigger booties or something oversized OR you can try your own silhouette. Remember the cliche that confidence is the most beautiful thing you can wear! So wear that one well 🙂

 

Denim Denim Outfits

Double denim has made it’s way back from the 80s and 90s into current fashion trends and, for good reason in my opinion! For those that know me, know that I seem to have an unending catalogue of “Denim Denim outfits”. The reason for this is because I buy a lot of clothes second hand and denim is a fabric that wears so well, keeps its shape, still looks good worn out and seems to always be in fashion! So…. I buy a lot of denim!! Therefore, I thought I’d share a few denim denim outfits from the catwalk as well as my own collection so that you can also be inspired over this trend and bring denim on denim back!

Tom Ford

I’m starting with Tom Ford because I really love his latest New York Autumn/Winter 2020 collection as his designs are really wearable and he has done some clever things with mixing denims to give an upcycled look in pants, skirts and bags. Here are some examples:

 

Veronica Beard

Veronica Beard is actually one of my favourite designers and I adore everything about this outfit especially how they have added quilting to the denim to create texture. Not to mention the floral, the high rise of the pants and that folded pocket on the pants too! So many things!

Here are some other examples by Ulla Johnson and Redemption where you can see a different vintage/washed denim look as well in monotone as well as more examples of mixing denims:

 

There are really no rules with wearing denim on denim I think and though I really love to mix it up and wear more than one type of denim at a time to add variety and contrast. Here are some examples of recent outfits:

 

Most of the items used here were bought second hand or as is the case with both the bags, borrowed from friends (it pays to have stylish and fashion appreciator friends 🙂 ).

 

Which is your favourite look?

For more inspiration, check out my latest IGTV here or shop the look below:

 

 

Thanks for reading 🙂

Leather and Suede Boots

Since I was a child (and much to the horror of my working class parents), I seem to wear shoes out really quickly so it’s always been important for me to buy shoes that are good quality so they last. (It also helps that I have a really good friend who is good at fixing shoes! Haha). I also love shoes that are a bit different and something that stands out but I find it hard to find exactly what I want. So, I designed and made these beauties:

These are made from leather and suede with a block heel that measures 6.5cm which makes them really comfortable for all day wear.

I get compliments every time I wear them so I decided to make them available for others to purchase as well!

If you love them too, they are now available in my Etsy Store and are made to order. This ensures more sustainability as there is less waste. They are also priced to ensure that the makers are paid for their craftsmanship and work and also, as mentioned, to ensure that we use good quality materials.

They are also available in pink:

And over the knee:

Visit the Etsy Store to order 🙂

 

 

 

 

 

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Where To Buy Used Clothing

It’s no secret that I love buying second hand clothing! I have been doing #thriftythursday posts on instagram for a quite a while now, sharing all the latest opped buys and reinvented looks. But for those who are new to the trend (or who just want a few more ideas) or for those who want to find unique pieces more sustainably and reduce their carbon footprint, here is a quick list of places I have used to buy used clothing as aside from scouring your friend’s wardrobes (which I do do on a regular), there are many places close by, some in bricks and mortar shops, others on the web and others within your friend’s collection!

Op Shops/Thrift Stores

In Australia we have a system for recycling clothes where charity shops take the unwanted items, clean them, and sell them in shops and use the profits towards their charitable cause. These items are donated usually by people placing their items in designated recycle bins that are taken into the shops. Shops in Australia include: Red Cross, Lifeline, Vinnies (St Vincent De Paul) and the Salvos (The Salvation Army).

(This shirt and scarf were recent purchases from op shops. The shirt is Forever New and cost me $8 from a Lifeline Op shop. The scarf was $1).

Second Hand Boutiques

Second hand boutiques are for profit stores where each item has been curated often for a specific aesthetic and likely purchased second hand from op shops or elsewhere and put into the shop for sale. In Australia, we’re still going to call them op shops though they operate a little differently. Most often prices are a little higher at a boutique but you are paying for the person’s time to actually hunt through the large amount of second hand clothes out there and pay all the overheads so that you can walk into a beautifully designed shop and have an experience (and maybe, take home a new item for your wardrobe) 🙂 Also, the items are usually better quality, vintage or on trend as the shop owner usually has a good eye for quality which saves you having to look through a bunch of items in a regular op shops til you find the gold 🙂

(This denim jacket was from a second hand boutique. It cost $30 and is definitely my favourite jacket. The bag was from a Lifeline store Op Shop)

Online

There are loads of websites designed to sell second hand and a quick google search should bring that up for you. The Style Me Petite Shop has some items which we will add to in time. There is also Facebook Market Place which is a feature of Facebook and a great tool for shopping for second hand items. Gumtree is another as is Instagram (try hashtags like #buymyclothes #shopmywardrobe #prelovedclothing #prelovedclothingforsale etc). EBay and DePop are others. To use these platforms, simply search for something that you are looking for like for me I search “size 8 women’s clothing” or “size 6 shoes”. If you have found something that you like and it is local, you can contact the seller and arrange a time to inspect or otherwise, arrange postage. If you don’t see the item in person, make sure that you ask all the details about fit including the measurements of the model in the pictures (if applicable) or at least the size they wear. It is totally fine to request more photos or also negotiate a price if you don’t feel that the amount is reasonable but you like the item (eBay doesn’t always allow for this but it has the feature of auctioning so you can bid with others where the highest bid wins). Try to stay polite and keep in mind depending on their audience, they may have a lot of people enquiring about items and it may take time for them to get back to you.

Garage Sales/Yard Sales

Usually advertised by homemade signs, facebook marketplace or gumtree; garage sales often have a wealth of really cool stuff and sometimes, you may find someone who is the same size as you selling some of their old clothes. You can usually snap up a really quick bargain this way and sometimes negotiate a sale with the seller.

Clothes Swap Parties

These are events where people bring their clothes they don’t wear and swap them with others. These work best when they are larger groups to give you a better chance that there are items in your size and style though it’s also a really fun thing to do with a bunch of friends (with some nibbles and champagne!). Check Facebook Events for local events or create your own!

Markets

There are quite a few types of markets, some are just Farmer’s Markets but others have clothes as well. On the Gold Coast, there is a great market called “The Village Markets” which I am a regular at which has some stalls with second hand clothing. What I love about TVM is it also has some original works from local designers so definitely worth checking out!

I recently went to Ballarat, Victoria to visit my family and went to the Mill Markets in both Ballarat and Daylesford. This is a great place to find used items, usually really stylish ones that have been handpicked for sale.

Suitcase Rummage

A suitcase rummage is similar to a market where a bunch of people bring their unwanted items or original creations in suitcases to sell. There is a small fee to sell your things but it is completely free to attend. There is a fun suitcase rummage that I have attended at Brisbane Square (also launching in Melbourne soon) where i purchased this shirt for $5 and a denim skirt. The rest of the items pictured here were from op shops except the brooch which was a hand me down from a friend.

What is your favourite thing purchased second hand? If you would like to keep updated of the things that I have purchased second hand, follow me on instagram. I post second hand items that I’ve acquired every Thursday with the hashtag #thriftythursday. If you have more ideas of where you have got second hand items, please leave them in a comment or tag me @stylemepetiteblog in your instagram posts 🙂

Thanks for reading,

How to buy used clothing

When I was a child, I remember getting hand-me-downs from my cousins as well as my older sister. This was in part because my parents decided to spend their earnings on paying off our house quickly which didn’t allow for a lot of money for buying clothes. Hand me downs are either cheap or free but as a young child I was oblivious to this and the understanding that buying second hand can often be cheaper came later though it is still not the main reason I buy second hand. I remember the garbage bags full of clothes that my cousins no longer wore and it literally felt like Christmas to me! I would scour through all of the items to see what treasures I could find, trying them on for fit, styling them with other clothes and accessories that I already had and literally reinventing myself over and over again. Often my cousins would buy things that I wouldn’t even consider and brands that our parents wouldn’t so often they had good quality materials and craftsmanship so I could feel really good in my “new” (to me) clothes! Fast forward to today and I still love getting hand-me-downs. I am the person who when invited to go to an event or a party, will request getting ready at your house so I can search through your wardrobe and accessories and borrow some of your items or re-style what you have to create new looks for you to wear out! It is just so fun for me! And whether I am just borrowing, re-styling for my friend, if I am actually gifted the item or if I have found it and bought it on my own, it is always fun to see an item given new life, especially if that item was not being used before, taking up space in a wardrobe or a shop that could be used to express a particular mood for that day!

This love of wearing other people’s clothes, shoes and accessories has grown over the years and I feel like I am well versed in how to buy and style used clothing and now with such a focus on sustainability and a growing awareness of the environmental impact of fast fashion (where clothes are made now to wear out quickly and are being thrown into landfill, taking many decades to break down) and the cost of actually producing new clothes (insert political statement about sweat shops or the gallons of water used to make cotton here), I thought I would share a few of my tips on how to buy used clothing so you too can enjoy the advantages of reinvention.

Define Your Why

Think about what you are trying to achieve by shopping second hand. Are you trying to reduce your carbon print? Are you looking for something unique? Are you looking to save a bit of money? Keep that in the back of your mind as you shop as it’ll help you make decisions of when to buy and when to say bye.

Get Inspired Beforehand

I really enjoy going shopping in mainstream stores to find what is trending and how the mannequins are styled, what colours are in etc. I also love to look on Pinterest for looks I love and pin them to boards for quick reference. I also enjoy buying Vogue Magazines and following Instagram accounts of people that have great style. These images will be in your mind (even subconsciously) and will influence the things you pick up in the shops and how you style them.

Wear separates

If you are going shopping to a physical location, I find it helps to wear separates (like pants and a top, or skirt and a top) so that you can see what the item looks like with other clothes you already own but also because there is nothing worse than trying on a top when you are wearing a dress and not having any pants to see how it looks.

General or Specific

In my experience, it’s best not to look too specifically while shopping second hand, but more look for unique or interesting things or aim to create a particular outfit or something similar to what you’ve seen but with different colours and different items. Though I do know many people who set intentions on a specific thing they want and have success doing that too so do what works for you!

Wash Before Wear

As you would before you wear anything new, make sure you wash items that you have purchased secondhand. If it is an expensive item, like a formal or wedding dress that needs to be dry-cleaned, check with the seller if it has been dry-cleaned. If not, factor the dry cleaning cost into your overall cost and weigh up if it is still worth it. The last thing you want is to be smelling the perfume (or worse, their body odor) of the person who wore the item before you (this is speaking from experience!).

Accept The Condition As It Is

As the items have often been worn before, you may find some minor wear and tear, like a missing button for example. The price should reflect this. Do not be put off by these details as they are an easy fix so learning a few sewing basics like sewing a hem, a button or a zip can help or otherwise, getting someone else (or pay someone else like a tailor or dressmaker) to do it for you. If you or someone else need to do work on an item to make it work, factor this into your overall price when deciding whether to purchase or not.

Quality over Quantity

Ok, I don’t always stick to this rule but in general, if you already have a denim jacket, do you really need another? (I have literally just handed on one of my four denim jackets because I wasn’t using it). Unless you are in desperate need of some basics, look for unique items or items you love and also, check out the quality. As above, some small repairs may be worth it but check out the fabric itself- is it starting to fade? Is it stretched in places? Is the fabric thin and unlikely to last? Are the hems and other seams likely to pull away in time? Unless you really love it, there is no point in buying an item that will only last you a couple of wears before you need to get rid of it. Another thing I look for is the care tag. If it has a list of instructions of how to properly care for an item, I will weigh up whether the item is worth my time to care and wash. I am a busy mum after all! With a job and study to juggle. If an item is too hard, I generally won’t bother!

Shop all sections

have heard this said many times! Particularly the advice I hear is to shop in the men’s department as an androgynous look is super trendy and men’s jackets and blazers look hot on some women but honestly, as a petite, I don’t do this that much because men’s clothes are usually swimming on me but if you are a petite with broader shoulders for example, then a man’s jacket may work for you. I do, however, shop in the children’s section (boys or girls actually) and also the linens section. I have a couple of woolen plaid blankets that I am in the process of up cycling into other items which is really fun! The blankets were both under $10 and I’m sure they cost over $100 new. So it can be a really cheap way to buy fabric if you are handy and love to sew!

Look for cool design features

I once bought a shirt because it had really cool buttons that I cut off and sewed onto another shirt. There are so many things you can do like that if you look at the item as fabric and haberdashery rather than the form it is currently in.

What do you think of these tips? Do you have any more questions about how to shop second hand? If you have some tips, I would love to hear them! Please comment them below.

Thanks for reading 🙂

Women’s cowboy boots- Boho style

Last weekend I went to the Groundwater Country Music Festival on the Gold Coast and though I enjoyed watching the music (and having a dance), I loved the fashions too and have since become obsessed with Women’s Cowboy Boots. Don’t get me wrong, I have always been a fan of the Country style but lately, it is really on trend so much easier to find and with more variety. Now you don’t need to wear all country to be rocking the cowboy boots, but introducing natural elements into your style can create some really cool boho vibes, which is perfect for a Music Festival, Rodeo or a night out with friends around a fire.

For a bit of inspiration, check out this clip. The worldwide success of this song (Old Town Road) is definitely contributing to bringing the cowboy style back. I mean seriously, the outfits in this clip make me want to ride a cowboy! I mean (cough), ride a horse (with a cowboy maybe? hahaha)!! Or at the very least, do some line dancing or boot-scooting! :-/

Let me tell you, I do love the boho style but nobody rocks this better than my very best friend Lorin. This relaxed and earthy style feels so authentic on her because she is a very natural and outdoorsy person, a trained naturopath with a love of nature, plants and all things outdoors so it seems to suit her personality (and I am ALLLL about matching our style with WHO WE ARE). She is also a petite with a height of 5’3″ (or 163cm) which made her the perfect model for me to style and photograph for this blog post.

PLUS… Her wardrobe is so beautiful with so many long flowy dresses and the coolest pair of…..

Cowboy boots!


I am in LOVE with Lorin’s cowboy boots. These were purchased from the Salvation Army Op Shop in Adelaide (her jacket also opped) but I have sourced some other cowboy inspired boots new that I will share at the end of this post. What I love about a good pair of boots, is they are so versatile and super comfy and it doesn’t matter so much if they get dirty as they are built for all kinds of terrain!

Dress them up!

One way to style a good pair of cowboy boots is with a long patterned skirt and a slouchy shoulder bag. This entire outfit of Lorin’s was second hand from the op shop but again, some new items  inspired by this natural style at the end of the post.

Cowboy boots with a maxi dress, a hat and a denim or suede jacket also really shows a natural, effortless look:

Add a few chunky accessories for a truly boho look…

On that note though, if you are going for a boho look, it’s a great idea to keep your look natural by including natural stones/crystals like Lorin’s necklace/ring as well as natural materials in fabrics like leather/suede, straw, cotton and linens.

Wear ’em with denim

Another great option is to wear your cowboy boots with denim. I feel like cowboy boots and denim are literally made for each other. You can do this by wearing boots with a short denim skirt or short frayed shorts (such a sexy festival look!), a dress/skirt (any length) with a denim jacket or vest or of course, with a trusty pair of denim jeans!

The bootleg jean is actually made for wearing boots underneath but as a petite, I actually find that it can be tricky to find a good pair of bootleg jeans that don’t require you having to cut most of the flare off to hem them! So another really cute (and modern) option is to wear your boots over skinny jeans like this:
What do you think? Do you love the cowboy/country style trend? Do you have any further tips to share? Please comment below! I’ve also sourced a few items inspired by this natural look for you to shop below:

 

 

If you are petite (under 5’4″) and would like to be featured on our site, please send an email to renae@stylemepetite.com

Special shout out to Lorin from Nourishing Beliefs for agreeing to model for me for this post. I had so much fun styling and photographing her with all of her beautiful clothes and in her natural habitat! What a beauty! Thanks for being so authentic and stylish Lorin. So inspiring!

Where To Buy Petite Clothing

As mentioned in an earlier post, petite women come in all shapes and sizes and being petite simply refers to having a height under 5’4″ (or under 162.5cm). Though there are no standard sizes (in Australia anyway), clothing for women is generally made for a height of 5’5″, sometimes even taller and though the most common challenge of being shorter is to do with longer lengths in dresses, tops, skirts, pants and sleeves; fixing lengths is usually an easy fix by cuffing or sewing a hem (either yourself or by getting a tailor). But being shorter can also effect other proportions that are not as easily fixed such as the width of shoulders, the heights of arm holes, lengths of straps, etc. Fortunately, there are some designers that are tailoring for shorter women and have developed more proportioned styles labeled as “Petite”. But finding these “petite” items is tricky so I have created a list of where to buy petite clothing below. But first, a little discussion on what makes petite clothing so appealing for those of us who are a little more vertically challenged 😉

Advantages of Petite Clothing

Petite clothing is clothing that is made for women with a height of 5’3″ (160cm) or below and though some come in smaller sizes (such as a size 4 or 6), many of the petite lines stock larger sizes too. What makes them different to regular sizes though is that petite clothing can provide:

-Shorter lengths for arms, legs and the hem of tops, dresses etc

-Higher armholes

-Shorter waist and rise in pants

-Shorter in-seam in pants

-Shoulders that are proportionally narrower

-Smaller cuff holes

-Collars and necklines that sit higher and

-Smaller details in patterns

Petite clothing makers also use designs to elongate the body too so for example, they may use vertical stripes to accentuate height or use small belt loops for skinny belts which seem to work better for smaller frames. As a side note, you may be a petite because of your height but that doesn’t mean that you have smaller proportions all over. It does depend on your body shape. So you may be short but have broader shoulders for example, and your shoulders may fit regular sizes in which case do not buy a jacket that is made for a petite because the shoulders will be too narrow. You may find petite pants work for you though with a shorter rise and shorter lengths. So you need to really know your body and its challenges first or check the measurements on each item if they are provided or if in store, try them on!

Knowing fit is important for a petite and sometimes it can be tricky to find the right fit. So I have done some research and compiled a list of outlets I have found that tailor specifically for petites. If you have others, please add them in the comments. To make it easier, I have categorised the outlets I have found into casual, work wear and evening wear. Some outlets cater for more than one category so I have done my best to pick a category or otherwise included them in more than one category. But note that you can find more than one category at the links so do check them all out! I have also focused on outlets that post to Australia because I am based in Australia though some of these outlets are worldwide or have other websites for different countries which can be found once you choose where you are shipping to once you have gone to the site. So whether you are looking for some weekend wear or something for work or something to head out after hours, I’ve got you covered 🙂 Below are links specifically to the petite ranges of the outlets below.

Warning! Online shopping can be addictive (particularly when they offer after pay) so shopping is at your own risk! (Don’t say I didn’t warn you! Haha!)

Where To Buy

For Casual Wear:

Pretty Little Thing

Boohoo

Misguided

Anthropologie

Target

TopShop

Soft Suroundings

Asos

Gap

Citizens of Humanity

Paige

Blue Bungalow

For Work Wear:

Boden

Forever New

Next

Myer

Express

Ann Taylor

Bloomingdales

Dorothy Perkins

Eileen Fisher

Simply Kate

Petite Dressing

Bomb Petite

For Evening/formal wear:

Next

Forever New

Macys Formal Dresses

Glam Corner (provides petite dresses for rent)

What did you think of this list? Were there any new places that you hadn’t heard of before? Any favourites? I loved checking out all of these sites. Each shop has its own look and price point and it’s fun to see new styles and imagine different ways to style. As mentioned, if you have places or any feedback on any of the above, please share with us in the comments 🙂

Thanks for reading,

Dress Styles To Hide A Tummy

As mentioned in my last post, I had a lot of women request this topic hence choosing to write about it but please do not feel that you need to “hide” any part of your body. Know that it is a part of your anatomy and you need it and it serves some wonderful purposes! But also, there are other great features that you may want to bring attention to so I have written a few style tips for this topic here and in this post, I will share about particular dress styles that do this too. Ladies with tummies, dresses are your best friend! But not all dresses. You really want to look for ones that provide extra fabric around your middle and that have designs lines that are slimming. This will ensure that they are comfortable and flattering.

A-Line dresses

A-Line and Empire Line dresses are the best to flatter a tummy. These styles are where the top of the dress (bust and shoulders) is more fitted but there is more fabric from under the bust down. A-line got that name because if you were to lay the top or dress down, it would roughly make the shape of an A or a triangle with the top smaller and the rest flaring out. Here is a great example from Jeanswest which I feel would be super flattering around the tummy and with a small amount of definition with the little belt, it brings the waistline up which lengthens the legs:

Another great option is this dress available from Modcloth:

What I love about this dress is that though it’s not petite, it is sleeveless (which is a great way for petites who have proportionally smaller shoulders to avoid having sagging shoulders). I also love the pleats that are very slimming and provide great vertical lines for height. A great A-line petite option is from Boden here. Super cute, extremely versatile and available in some great colours.

Empire Dresses

Empire dresses are usually associated with formal dresses but they are very similar to A-line but the fabric falls straight down rather than flares out. For some petite options, check out this dress from Boden that is a casual empire line dress or this one. Both of the Boden dresses come in petites and you can check the size guide for each garment to check if you need a petite size or regular (they also have talls/longs!).

Maxi Dresses

Maxi dresses are great for creating an illusion of height. Look for maxi dresses that are all the one pattern or colour and incorporate diagonal or vertical lines if you can. Horizontal lines on a petite aren’t great and really not good for someone who is wider because the vertical line is drawing the attention horizontal making you appear wider rather than vertical, making you taller. I am in love with this dress that I found at Modcloth:
It has some additional features that really make it work including that fabulous diagonal vertical line which brings the attention vertical and really gives more height. It also comes in some bigger sizes (upto 4 XL) and some really small sizes (XXS) but unfortunately this dress is not a petite item so you may need a hem! (But check the size guide for measurements). Here is a more casual one from Rusty which is super cool too:
I would recommend wearing a fitted cropped vest or jacket with the one above. More styling tips about jackets can be found here and here. Another fun maxi dress here:
(For petite maxi dresses, consider this one or this one from Boden).

Wrap Dresses

I really like wrap dresses in general. I feel like they are super flattering and work for so many body shapes. They provide extra coverage around the tummy to and the diagonal lines they create are quite slimming and usually, the V brings the attention to the bust area. Here is a great one from Boden (that comes in a range of sizes including petite, regular and long). Here is another one I love particularly for ladies who want to show off their legs!There are many more designs that work but these are just a few. I had so much fun shopping for these styles. Feel free to share what you have found in the comments 🙂 More style tips on this topic can be found in my previous post here.

How to dress to hide a tummy

I wrote this post as I literally had women asking me this question. Actually it surpises me how many women want to know how to dress to hide a tummy. I did some research on it and wrote this article but also, I want women to feel empowered to express themselves in what they put on their body, not hide parts that they are ashamed of. As women there is a lot of pressure to look a certain way, be a certain size etc but I hope you know that there is more support than ever for women of different shapes and sizes as beauty is so subjective. I also know that the right outfit that brings attention to the parts of your body you like the most can make all of the difference in how you feel and confidence is sooo sexy so that’s why I am writing this! Also, I know that it is not just out of shame that women want to hide their tummy. I remember being in the early stages of pregnancy for example and trying to conceal my tummy as I wasn’t ready to tell people our news. I also remember my usual style not providing enough coverage after having my children as it can take some time to loose that tummy after having a baby! So whatever reason, here’s some style tips that will hopefully help you to feel more confident in your body.

A-Line

A-line are garments that are fitted up the top and flare out at the bottom. You can get a-line dresses, tops and skirts. A-line got it’s name because if you imagine laying the item flat, you would see that it makes a shape of a triangle or the letter A (if you can see the two bottom parts of the letter A as your legs!). The part of the top or skirt that flares out can hide a lot and people are unaware what’s underneath as the shape just looks like part of the clothing.

Focus On Vertical, Not Horizontal

The advantage of focusing on vertical design lines is that it can not only make you look taller (so good for us petites), it also naturally takes the attention away from the horizontal which is definitely what you want when you are trying to hide the wider parts of your body such as your tummy! The dress above has sneaky pleats which create vertical lines, bringing the attention up. Here is another example of an a-line dress with vertical lines in the pattern as well as navy blue where the buttons are:


I have written more styling tips to bring the attention vertical in this post and this post.

Belts and Waistbands

Skinny belts are not a great option if you are trying to hide a tummy unless you are an hour glass or a pear shape and have a defined waist that is quite a bit slimmer than the bit of your tummy you are trying to conceal. Either way, if you are wearing a belt on your waist (to actually hold up your pants/skirt), consider wider belts and wider waistbands too because you can really hide a lot behind them! Many people with a bit of extra weight wear their pants below their tummy but actually opting for a higher waisted pant can actually be more slimming as it can provide some coverage. I would also encourage you not to put a belt all the way around the widest part of your body without covering some of that area with a longer top, vest, cardigan or the “French Tuck”. A French tuck involves tucking just some of your shirt into your pants but leaves the rest of the shirt untucked so there is more fabric that can hide where your body ends.

Jackets

Many people with a bigger tummy (or bust) make the mistake of trying to find jackets that do up and unfortunately by doing so, they are sacrificing fit in other places and what ends up happening is they can just look bigger all over. To avoid this, simply wear jackets or cardigans undone that fit your shoulders and wear a dress or the same colour on the top and bottom to create a smaller silhouette underneath the jacket. Cropped jackets or vests can still look great if you are wearing a longer top (think tunic length) or dress underneath.

Avoid…

I know it’s tempting but avoid wearing short tops or tops that sit at the top of your pants or skirt as they may creep up and show the very part of your body you’re trying to bring attention away from. Also avoid wearing tops that are tight and fitted around your tummy (it’s just not as comfortable either!). I would also encourage you to avoid wearing big bold patterns on the top half of your body as they will just bring attention to that area. Opt instead for darker colours on top (you can still wear colour! Just go for bright, rather than light). There are so many other great designs that work for you, so avoid those that don’t if you can.

Show Off Your Other Assets!

Think about the other parts of your body that you like more such as your bust, legs, shoulders,  booty and find ways to draw attention there. This naturally brings the attention away from your belly! You can do this by colour blocking like this:

See how this brings the attention to her bust and stunning décolletage? Or by wearing a V-neck which shows some cleavage 🙂 (Hey, flaunt it if you have it girls!!)

Asymmetry


Asymmetrical lines seem to confuse us, which is a good thing when you want to conceal what’s underneath! The above top is also A line in that it is more fitted up the top and looser down the bottom. This is a really flattering design though I would encourage you to pair a looser fitting top with a more structured bottom such as more fitted pants or a pencil skirt (if it’s not too tight around your tummy and the top is long enough to hide that part if it is). The same rule works in the other way around too. If you have more looser skirt or pants, wear a more fitted top (as demonstrated by the green dress above).

Wear Dresses

I have shown a few examples of dresses in this post. This is because dresses are super flattering because they create a seamless line all the way down your body and you can create some really beautiful silhouettes with the right design lines. Having said that, not all dresses work so avoid fitted ones and go for ones with more fabric under the bust. I have another post that goes into more detail about the types of dress styles that I think work best but for now, here are some great examples:



I particularly love this green number because it also has a vertical/diagonal line with the lighter green which is really slimming and brings the attention up vertically which also creates more height. The above dresses are not in Modcloth’s petite range so be sure to check the size chart before purchasing or adjust the lengths to work.

Peplums

A really fun option is a peplum top. The reason this works is because the fabric flares out where the tummy is and you can hide a bit of a gut underneath without anyone knowing the difference!



I hope this information has helped you and you can feel more confident to wear clothes and designs that really bring out your best assets. For more dressing tips, consider reading this post on dress styles to hide a tummy or this post on body shapes. If you have any other tips or questions please comment them below or reach out using the contact form 🙂

Thanks for reading,

How To Appear Taller (post 2)

Making yourself appear taller is advantageous for petites (women 5’4″ or 162.5cm and below) but also for other women too as styling yourself to appear taller is also more slimming as it brings the focus vertically (making you look slimmer), rather than horizontally (which can make you look wider). I actually started writing my style tips on this topic here but I had so much to say that I thought it would be easily to digest over two posts! But, if you haven’t already read the last post, please do that first. It covers what to look for in shoes, why cropped items work, what lengths are good in tops and skirts etc as well as other great styling tips. Anyway, continuing on from the last post, here are tips 6-10 to help you style to appear taller.

Tip 6: Tuck

The main aim to looking taller is to lengthen the legs, torso and arms. By tucking in your top, you are essentially bringing the waist line up which naturally lengthens the legs. This works for many different body shapes but is particularly good for petites as lengths of hems can be a problem for those of us who are shorter (read more about the challenges of getting the right fit for a petite here).

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There are a few different ways to tuck in a top. The first (as above) is just simply to tuck it in, all the way around. Adding a belt is also great as it brings more attention to that waist height, lengthening the legs (more information about which horizontal lines to accentuate and which ones to avoid in the previous post). If there is too much fabric or you still enjoy the shirt untucked (especially if you are going for a more casual look or want to cover your seat!), you could try the “French Tuck”.  The French Tuck involves tucking your shirt at the front (or sometimes I like to tuck at the side) and then untucking a little so that the entire shirt is not tucked but you can still see the waist line where you have tucked, adding length to the legs. The French Tuck also creates a great diagonal with the asymmetry of the front being shorter than the back so it is really flattering and again brings the attention up and makes you appear taller.

Tip 7: Shop Petites

This does depend on your size and body shape but note again that petite does not mean small and petite clothes are simply made with proportions that work better for those that are shorter (generally under 5’5″). This means that shoulders may be more narrower, hems shorter, arm holes higher, etc. More about the advantages of petite clothes here. Some petite lines do stock bigger sizing and there are some labels that are designed for shorter plus sized ladies too (check out City Chic, Lane Bryant, or Taking Shape for example).

Tip 8: Try The Children’s Section

Children’s sizing only really works if you are a smaller petite but don’t write them off completely as you may get lucky! A size 8 ladies (Australian sizing) ends up being a size 14 in children’s though it depends on the brand. (I discuss sizing discrepancies more in this post).

Remember it is more flattering to wear jackets and tops that fit the shoulders so even if a children’s or petite size jacket doesn’t do up but fits well around the arms and shoulders (and doesn’t restrict any movement, haha), it can look really stylish undone particularly over a monochrome silhouette and having those shoulders fitting really brings in the overall look, helping to slim and elongate.

I have many children’s clothes including this vest which is a children’s size 12:

And this jacket which is a children’s size 10:

What I do love about children’s clothes is they are made for shorter people so the lengths in arms and hems seems to work much better and overall the proportions work better for shorties.

Tip 9: Learn To Sew Some Basics

You can pick up a sewing kit quite cheaply from a supermarket or a sewing shop like Spotlight for hand sewing alterations. It comes with different coloured cottons, sewing needles, hook and eyes, chalk, pins, scissors etc. I encourage you to invest in at least that though if you have some more money and will be doing a few alterations, I would encourage you to also purchase a sewing machine (or at least make sure you have access to one!). You may even like to try attending some sewing classes. Learning to sew a hem is paramount to a petite. I will share some how tos in later posts.

Tip 10: Invest In A Tailor

If you cannot learn the above, find a good tailor who can alter your clothes for you. Fit is important though this is usually a last resort for me as it can get costly though the difference in how you look can be worth it so that is something you need to weigh up in the moment. Simple adjustments like altering lengths is an easy fix but other alterations like changing the height of arm holes are a bit trickier! I went to Bali last year and got a bunch of my clothes re-made and a few of my existing clothes altered. This is another option if you already have a holiday planned and much cheaper than doing it in Australia!

The previous post covers a whole bunch of other tips including what shoes to wear, wearing cropped jackets, sleeves and pants as well as some tricks to layer if clothes are not fitting correctly so make sure you check that out. If you have any other tips, I would love to hear them! So please leave a comment below or get in touch using the contact form.

Thanks for reading,